tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31643510117673950422024-02-20T15:11:27.988-08:00Tales of a Traveling Mom and MoreA working mom embracing two boys, a husband, and the adventures of a lifetime!Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-32942009910385852112010-09-10T08:21:00.000-07:002010-09-10T08:48:31.724-07:00Friday and a Moment of TruthSo I've decided to post something a little personal today, thinking that putting these thoughts and feelings out there may make them more real to me. <br /><br />I'm a competitor, okay that's not a shock to anyone who knows me, but I am at a juncture in my life that offers no real opportunity for competition or movement. I have known it for some time, but I haven't known how to deal with it. Honestly, I still don't, which is part of my point in writing. I feel blessed for the life and family I have, so what is it inside me that wants to accomplish so much more? Why can't I just get better at my job as it is and stay comfortable where I am? My life is good...no, my life is GREAT! Yet I want to be better: better at what I do, better at who I am. But how, where?<br /><br />Maybe I should back up... see, I was the kid who made myself a basketball player (not my words, my coach's), and I was the player who had nightmares after losses. I was the girl who spent two hours a day learning dance steps because I didn't like being first runner-up (or first loser as my dad once said), and I was the pageant girl (hate that phrase) who had nightmares for years about how I could have handled my Miss America interview better. So now, I am the wife, mother, and career woman who works everyday to give the best to everyone who needs me and expects it of me, but I always want/need to do better.<br /><br />This brings me to my latest endeavors at work, at home, and at play. At work, I am on a quest to raise money better than I ever have in my job: to provide scholarships, to complete Ozarks' amazing comprehensive campaign, and to feel truly accomplished in my work! At home, I have worked to be a better wife by using new recipes and not just making dinner from a box and turning the TV <strong>off</strong> to get on the floor with my kids and play. As for my ambitions for play, I am trying for the second year to become a member of the Disney Mom's Panel. I'm not sure that I am pixie dust enough for them, but I <strong>LOVE</strong> Disney and have taught my kids and my husband a love for Disney. I tried for the panel last year with no luck and also not telling anyone about it. But this year, I thought I would be a little more out there and ambitious about it. The panel application process opens Monday and I plan to be one of the first to turn in my application. We'll see how it goes. Honestly, I'd just like to make it to the second round, then maybe next year I can make it to the third round... okay, yes, I want to make the panel, but they will get 20,000 applications, so I'd at least like to do better than last year.<br /><br />There it is: my Friday Moment of Truth and putting a little more of myself out there.<br />We'll see where it goes!Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-85338238390201329282010-08-03T10:07:00.000-07:002010-08-03T10:09:14.043-07:00“I ate all my chicken”<p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">My four year old is becoming increasingly conscious of the world around him.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>As a parent, it is somewhat eerie when you start to realize your child is putting concepts together, remembers things from “when I was three,” and discovers how to be covert – or thinks he is covert…<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So begins his story of, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal">“I ate all my chicken.”</i><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">Z tends to eat slowly, which is putting it mildly.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>We have finished many a meal in which his daddy has remained seated with him while everyone else moved on to other things.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>This is a fact of which Z has become increasingly aware.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It is also a principle on which he often bases an argument of not having to eat very much because, “I take forever.” <o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">On Saturday evening, I cooked chicken strips, broccoli (yes, my son actually likes it), and corn and served Z and his daddy in the living room.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It appeared to be the makings of a pretty typical evening.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The first red flag should have gone up when after giving my son his plate, he asked me, “Where’s [the dog] Lizzie?” <o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">“Outside,” I responded. “Eat your dinner.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">“Let Lizzie back in,” he says. <o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">“You don’t need Lizzie.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Just eat your dinner.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">So we all sat in the living room: Z and his daddy in the two captains chairs while I am perched on the couch with the toddler going between each of us to see who has the food he wants. (He eats at his high chair while I cook and then nibbles off our plates during meals.)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>After a little bit, Z announces, “I ate all my chicken, but I don’t want the other stuff.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">“Okay,” I tell him. “But you need to eat more chicken if you don’t want your broccoli or corn.” <o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">He thinks for a minute and then says, “Okay, more chicken.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>At this point my husband is up getting himself some more chicken so he cuts up a piece and gives it to Z. This time a few minutes go by but not near as long as the first time, and Z announces that he ate all his chicken.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Wow!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>We ask if he wants more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>When he says yes, his daddy doesn’t bother to cut it up this time and instead brings him the full chicken strip.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>One minute later, our son greets us in the kitchen with an oh-so-proud of himself face and announces again, “I ate all my chicken.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt">Now, I’m suspicious, so I go to the chair where he has been sitting.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I look behind and underneath it to find what I believe is all three chicken strips served to him plus a piece of bacon from breakfast (how the dog missed it I’ll never know).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I walk back to my husband in the kitchen and simply say, “go look at his chair.” As my hubby looks at the floor covered with food and I bring a plate in to clean it up, he tells our son to go to his room.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>We then proceed to take five minutes for everyone to breathe.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>When he finally looks at me to say, “I’m not sure where to go with this,” I look at the clock (7:25 p.m.)<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>and respond, “a bath and then his room seem appropriate.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So our son, for what I believe is the first time in his four and a half years, went to bed with no TV, no games, no books, no cuddle, and no dinner – I did concede to take him a snack when he admitted to being hungry, even though I was tempted to give him the chicken that he had thrown on the floor.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 'Arial', 'sans-serif'; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 11.5pt"><o:p> </o:p></span></p>Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-34378799184445052332010-07-29T12:25:00.000-07:002010-07-29T14:12:22.942-07:005 a.m.Why, son, why? Why must we be up at 5 a.m. today? The questions rolled over in my mind a hundred times... that is, when I could keep myself awake as my 15 month old climbed up and down from the couch on which my body deeply wanted to drift back off to sleep. He is a pretty sweet baby in the mornings. He has always been an early riser unlike the other three of us in our house. Recently he has taken to sleeping until 7 a.m. rather than his usual 6 a.m. wake up call. But not today! Today he made up for those few days of sleeping in, and so there we were up at 5 a.m.<br /><br />I stumbled into the kitchen and poured him a sippy cup of milk. Then I grumbled my way back to the couch to hopefully sit, cuddle, and soothe him back to sleep. I did not turn on many lights and definitely no television, thinking that eventually he would get the idea. Then I realized he needed a dry diaper, so up again. Dry diaper and back to the couch. We sat, he drank. Then the milk was gone and he was fussy. So I stumbled back to the kitchen to acquire more milk and also get him a breakfast bar. I lay back on the couch trying to close my eyes (at least one eye while I kept the other on him). Then he began to play the up/down game... up on the couch, down off the couch.<br /><br />Urgh, maybe I should go wake up my husband for his turn of early morning duty... but then he'd just turn on the TV and go back to sleep while my son stared enamored at the bubetube.. so no, I'll stick it out.<br /><br />By six o'clock he was bringing out the books. Once, twice, I'll read them; by the third time, I'm getting frustated. Surely this kid wants to go back to bed. I lie there glaring at him. "I love you," I say, "but don't you want to get a little more sleep before the sun comes up." Finally, at 6:20 a.m. he goes toward the stairs to his room and grunts his usual "ehh."<br /><br />Aha! I ask, "want to go back to bed?" I pick him up and begin up the stairs. "Bed," he repeats, "Bed!" YES, exhausted and trudging myself to his bedroom, my son has tossed me a "mommy bone"-- not just sleep but a new word. My son can say "bed!"Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-55492316260839020242010-07-23T07:01:00.000-07:002010-07-23T07:20:26.532-07:00Catching up (The WDW planning saga)So as my mind starts to drift toward my family's ambitious road-trip adventure to Southern California in four months, I thought it was about time that I finally post everything I put together for the kids and grandparents last December at DisneyWorld. Please keep in mind that these few articles were basically journal entries to myself written at the time of planning (relatively this time last year). <br /><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Planning Walt Disney World with 2 Kids, 2 Parents, and 4 Grandparents<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Part I Room reservations<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">The following is a run-down of the process it took to plan the overall dynamics of our son’s first “official” WDW trip… </span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">My booking window (exactly seven months prior to our date of check-in) was here and I was primed and ready to make our reservations at the new Bay Lake Towers at Disney’s Contemporary Resort.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>However, I had no idea how complicated the actual reservations would be.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">I was planning for two grandparents with us part of the time (four nights) and two grandparents with us the whole time (six nights), plus hubby, myself and the boys.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Of course, simply calling and asking for three rooms over X dates wasn’t going to cut it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>This was going to take some work and adaptation to our needs in conjunction with what was available.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">After about a week of deliberation and calls back and forth with DVC (Disney Vacation Club), I found a plan.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>We booked a studio for four nights, and a two bedroom villa for six nights with a drastic mixture of points and cash payments (Day 1-points; Day 2 & 3 - cash; Day 4-points; Day 5- cash; Day 6- points).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>You would not believe what I went through to get that finalized.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The Disney people were always helpful, just a lot of hoops and coordination with availability and family.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>But we got it set!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>This was at approximately 210 days out.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> N</span>ext, we just had to wait until our 90 day window to book dining reservations!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Part II Dining Reservations<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">In the meantime, I began planning.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I use an excel spreadsheet for all our travel plans.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I did this even before we had kids.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My husband and I have traveled with and without schedules, and after our last unscheduled vacation, he assured me that my scheduling was the best way to go.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So I began looking at the possible plans – I knew the first day had to be the <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:place st="on"><st1:placename st="on">Magic</st1:PlaceName> <st1:placetype st="on">Kingdom</st1:PlaceType></st1:place> with both sets of grandparents.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Next, I had to think about everyone’s needs, interests, and comfort levels from the seven month old to the 70 year old.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>From nap schedules to mobility issues not to mention the time people need to get up and about in the morning, it was all I could do to keep my head from spinning.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">I started with basics: meal times and parade/show schedules available.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I decided to go with the Dining Plan so that there was never a concern about who picked up the check, and because of my in-depth planning, I knew I could easily make it worth the money.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So I selected a few choice character meals – <st1:place st="on"><st1:placename st="on">Crystal</st1:PlaceName> <st1:placename st="on">Palace</st1:PlaceName></st1:place> for breakfast the first day (a tradition for my parents and me), lunch with Playhouse Disney characters, breakfast with Donald, and breakfast at Chef Mickey’s for the morning we were leaving.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I also knew Castle Dining was a must.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Many of the others I began to pick and chose as the 90 day window loomed closer for making the reservations. I selected some old stand bys but also reviewed and contemplated menus for some new dining experiences. (I highly recommend AllEars.net for its great website with menus.) </span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">On the 90<sup>th</sup> day prior to our check-in at Bay Lake Resort I was up at 4:45 a.m. for the reservation office to open in <st1:city st="on"><st1:place st="on">Orlando</st1:place></st1:City>.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I was poised with my credit card, reservation number, and anything else they might ask me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I called for 15 minutes straight.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Then voila a Disney cast member answered, and we were on our way.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I got it!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Our castle dining reservation for six adults and two children booked!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Hooray!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">In the course of that day, I called back once to make nine more dining reservations.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Then over the next week I called and made four more.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I then called and booked a couple of meals just for my father and his wife, and I booked one more reservation online. Scarily, 30 days out I still had one reservation that I hadn’t booked for my in-laws, but they didn’t seem that keen on what they wanted to do which made it a little difficult on me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Surely, I can get a reservation for two squeezed in somewhere (eyebrow raised).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>In total, I made 17 reservations for our party over a total seven night stay – and a mixed bag at that, some for parties of two, some for eight, some for six and one for four.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Then began the coordination of more dynamics and more questions: who goes with the grandchildren and when, who keeps which child, who sleeps in, who gets up early, when do we relax, can we make it from Fantasmic! to the Spirit of Aloha Dinner Show in an hour? The questions go on and on.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>However, all of that said, I have the schedule set and with 30 days out I started on the smaller details: grocery lists, airport transfers, packing lists, and the daily countdown for a 3 year old.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Budgeting vacation and Christmas at the same time<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">One art in traveling is learning to plan and budget wisely, especially if you have the crazy idea of traveling around the holidays.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>If you are anything like me, you may often use your credit card to pay for a vacation and you may also use it to purchase the endless list of Christmas gifts.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Put these two major purchase times together and you have the making for a credit card bill that is near impossible to pay off.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Fortunately for me, we have been planning our Disney World trip for months.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So beginning in July, I started analyzing my credit card billing cycle – on my Disney Visa card.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I made plans to buy early Christmas presents, space out vacation purchases such as tickets, and also started collecting a few gift cards for spending at the Parks – all the while adding up reward points/dollars for our vacation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> One money saving opportunity because of my preparation and our length of stay, I am saving $50 per ticket by not adding the park hopper.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It is funny, I consider myself pretty frugal, but when it comes to Disney I want to experience so much.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I worry if I have gone overboard on this trip.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I have tried to cut back where I can like with the tickets, and I have also spaced out my purchases over five months so as not to take a huge hit when we are in the parks. </span></span><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">When all is settled, I will have only six Christmas presents to buy in December (four of those are members of my traveling party and I plan to get their presents at WDW) and my Disney World charges will hopefully total only $1200 – most of that going toward the Deluxe Dining Plan I chose for my family -- which can be offset by whatever we have left on our gift cards and reward card.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><o:p></o:p></span></b> </p>Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-2568388414060203762010-07-08T06:13:00.000-07:002010-07-08T06:18:01.081-07:00Guilty Pleasures<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Sometimes "a girl has to do what a girl has to do," or so the saying goes.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>For me it is more along the lines of "a mom has to find sanity where a mom can find sanity."<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>And for this I have recently turned to what I call my “guilty pleasures.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>These involve reading, watching, and planning.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Allow me to explain…<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></span></b><br /><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">As a child I was never a fan of reading.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Despite having an English teacher for a mother, Cliffs Notes were my friend to put it mildly.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It wasn’t until I was in graduate school that I discovered one really could read for pleasure.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I found this by reading Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice as I prepared for a summer course in England.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It is still my all time favorite and I reread it when I am bored, which sadly is a rarity.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>But the not having time element brought me to the state of reading as a guilty pleasure.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I have discovered that I am not a “lay it on the night stand” kind of reader.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Once I start, it must be finished.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>And so my recent guilty pleasure has been Mary Balogh books which I tend to start and push everything else aside.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Balogh is a Regency era romance novelist.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So far this summer I believe I have read seven of her works.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>And the last one, A Matter of Class, I read twice because the twist at the end made rereading the beginning even more fun.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So now I just need to get to a Barnes and Noble which carries some of her older works so I can continue this terrific guilty pleasure.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I don’t know what I will do when she runs out of books; however, I think she has around seventy so it isn’t bound to happen anytime soon although moderation is key because, again, I tend to neglect everything when I start reading.<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Next, there is a new television show I have gotten into and for the life of me I don’t know why.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I call it the teenage version of Desperate Housewives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Pretty Little Liars comes on ABC Family on Tuesday nights. Again, I don’t know why I am watching a show about silly 16 year old girls and their all too intricate lives of messing with older men, confused sexuality, and a dead friend who is haunting them via texts.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Seriously, why do I care about this show again?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Okay it’s got mystery; it is a far cry from my thirty-something life with children; and it is nothing like my teenage years, so why not?<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Third is my obsession with planning trips.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Seriously, I might chart a trip to the grocery store if it took more than ten minutes to get there.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Planning travel used to be a hobby when my husband and I went on vacation; however, now it is an all out quest.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I research restaurants, attractions, hotels and stops for the kids.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I budget, not down to the penny yet but I am afraid the time may be coming.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I plan so much that I even plan in flexibility to my schedule.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Isn’t that ironic on some level?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>But my husband likes it and I feel like we get the most out of our trips this way. Plus when traveling with two small children, it is always best to look ahead because you will never see everything that is coming.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So when I get stressed I plan the next trip even if it is six months away.<o:p></o:p></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Strangely I now realize that “doing” seems to be glaringly absent from my guilty pleasures.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Now I wonder why that is?<o:p></o:p></span></b></p>Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-87815160270402963442010-05-19T10:57:00.000-07:002010-05-19T11:05:24.558-07:00Has it really been three months!?!I can't believe that I have missed three months of blogging. Between birthdays and the biggest event of my work year, I guess I have been a little side tracked. Not that I haven't thought about it. I do occasionally start a blog in my head. Sadly, it never makes it to paper (or digital screen as is the case these days). So I will try very soon to post a few recaps from the past month and move into the present day events of life. Just a few of the blogs to come:<br /><br />Nic's First Birthday<br />Recapturing the Renaissance<br />The Mother's Day Present<br />Celebrating Ten Years: The parents getaway<br />Planning the Griswald's RevisitedBrandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-90886261431911831532010-02-06T19:07:00.000-08:002010-02-06T20:17:53.371-08:00Thoughts from my week<span style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; COLOR: #333333; FONT-SIZE: 8.5pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA" lang="EN"><span style="font-family:arial;font-size:100%;"> <p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Sunday’s Scriptures<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> <o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"><span style="COLOR: #333333; mso-ansi-language: EN" lang="EN">Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.<br /><br />Although I have often seen these words in a wedding setting, our minister brought a new perspective to me. He said to replace the word Love and It with your own name. Then read the verses. <br style="mso-special-character: line-break"><br style="mso-special-character: line-break"></span><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Monday’s Measurement<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;">What’s worse than a Monday?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>How about a Monday in which you scrutinize and measure your past year’s work?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I always feel so good about my work until this time of year comes… the annual evaluation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I spent my Monday writing narratives of my year’s work and how it relates to last year’s objectives and my job description and then list objectives for the next year.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It is an essential element in the job growth process, but it can take you from patting yourself on the back with your head in the clouds on one item to wanting to crawl under a rock with the next.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I have always been a very tough critic upon myself since I was a child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My dad said punishment was rarely an issue because simply knowing the displeasure of my parents would crush me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I am often the same way with work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I strive to please people, and ultimately please myself, but I am an extemely tough evaluator so that lead to…</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Tuesday’s Troubles<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;">I had spent the previous night and the better part of Tuesday morning agonizing over how I could do my job better.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>How could I see my percentages really increase, not just hold steady, but increase?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Where could I improve my return on investment for events? What is my next career move? Do I have one? How do I get there? Oh, the questions… they can eat you alive.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;">Did I mention that this was also my husband’s birthday?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So, here I was, down in the dumps while trying to keep my head up and not take it out on him on his birthday.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Growing older is not one of his favorite things.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>He almost takes it personally that the universe has decided he must age.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I’m being a little dramatic, but trust me I have a spouse who very much enjoyed being in his twenties.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>His mid-thirties with two kids sometimes brings him down.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Wednesday’s Way Forward<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;">By Wednesday, I was ready to move on. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I turned my evaluation in to my boss, and I let it go.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I had some other very important items to get prepared and I settled in to address them and get them done.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>By the end of the day, I felt back on track.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Just in time for…</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"></span></span> </p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Thursday’s Theatrics<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;">My morning was spent with acrobatics of planning and preparing items that needed to be out of my hands for the next two days as I left the office for a Board of Trustees retreat.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I was able to get everything together by <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:time hour="12" minute="0">noon</st1:time>, just in time to begin the juggling act of preparing children to go to grandparents, packing bags, and trying to get in the car to leave in two hours.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The four year old was simple to pack, but the ten month old was a little more difficult as I am still nursing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>(Which meant I had to make sure I sent enough stored milk and then took everything I needed to pump for two days.) Okay, so TMI, but you might as well understand the full perspective of my juggling act. However, my dad had his car loaded and the kids picked up by <st1:time hour="13" minute="30">1:30 p.m.</st1:time> and hubby and I were on the road by <st1:time hour="14" minute="15">2:15 p.m.</st1:time><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Not bad.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;">We were on our way to <st1:placetype>Mt.</st1:PlaceType> Magazine Lodge, which I had intended to write about from a travel perspective.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>However, the cold, windy, and foggy weather did not lend itself to many views to write about.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The lodge while beautiful does have a few issues, at least our room did, and the food was adequate.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Well, maybe I will follow this up at a later time with my overall review.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Don’t misunderstand it was a great meeting facility.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>So placed in context, it was well done, but if you are considering vacation, you should just be prepared for a few things.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Friday’s Forum<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;">Not much to write here although the day was probably one of the most interesting days of seminars/speeches/lectures that I have ever experienced.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I generally drift in and out after an hour in a "classroom," but not this time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The speakers were interesting and entertaining and the topics and data were fascinating.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>They kept my attention from <st1:time hour="8" minute="30">8:30 a.m.</st1:time> to <st1:time hour="16" minute="30">4:30 p.m.</st1:time> But </span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><span style="color:#000000;"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Saturday’s Separation Anxiety<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;">My hubby and I returned home to the kids today.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>When we walked in the door, our four year old ran to both of us and gave big hugs and excitement to see us – every parents dream reaction from their kids.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Now our ten month old not so much, he just stared at me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>He looked almost in disbelief.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Finally, when he came to me, he placed his small arms completely around my neck and placed his head on my shoulder.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>As I hugged him and thought how sweet it was to embrace and be embraced by my baby, he broke into tears.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I couldn’t fully tell if he was mad at me or that he had been hurt and confused over the days without me and was releasing his pent up pain when he finally had me back.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I tried one of our special games that almost always makes him laugh, but instead he cried. So I took him and sat quietly for a few minutes of nursing.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I think this reassured him that his mommy was really home and he was all smiles and laughter after that.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>But wow, what a reaction and how clearly even an infant can relay their displeasure with you in a way that cuts you to the core for hurting them.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;color:#000000;"> </span></o:p></p></span></span>Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-18900268114717658492010-01-22T06:36:00.000-08:002010-01-22T06:38:13.944-08:00Waste of an Evening<p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">Those words or something like that were the words uttered by Mr. Hurst in Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice in regards to the social outing of a country ball.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>These words are also the way I know that my husband and I often feel depending on how our night has gone.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">A non-waste of an evening would go something like this:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">The baby goes to sleep at <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:time hour="20" minute="0">8 p.m.</st1:time> and stays asleep a minimum of two hours without needing a pat on the back or rocking.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Our older son is asleep by 10 without an argument or pleading for more reading and cuddling.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My hubby and I catch up on the couch to watch our favorite DVRed shows or (gasp) a movie!</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">However, most of our evenings go one of about three ways:</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">1) If the baby happens to sleep, the older son will not and therefore cries, fusses, and pleads to be in cuddled in which case one of us (usually me) falls asleep with him while putting him to bed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>2) If by chance the older one goes to sleep in a reasonable amount of time and I have not fallen asleep with him, the baby will cry within thirty minutes, and I will fall asleep putting him back to sleep.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>3) On the rare night in which both boys go to sleep reasonably, I am usually dying to get to bed and enjoy as much uninterrupted rest as possible before the inevitable happens of the baby waking up because he will then typically wake every hour or two from then on.</span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">And so I sit here tonight at 10 p.m., with the baby asleep in his crib, my hubby reading/cuddling our preschooler, a thunderstorm rattling outside, an episode of Two and a Half Men paused on the DVR in hopes of being watched, and I write to fill my mind with exercise and some form of relaxation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>But for my hubby and me, it is turning into a typical “waste of an evening.” </span></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><o:p><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"> </span></o:p></p><p style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family:Times New Roman;">P.S. Then the lights went out.</span></p>Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-3100311750620073392010-01-15T08:59:00.000-08:002010-01-15T09:06:15.204-08:00Celebrating MotherhoodToday is the fourth anniversary of my becoming a mother. I remember the labor and delivery like it was yesterday, except for some drug inhibited patches. And despite doing my best to go it without drugs, God bless the epidural at the end. The epidural in both of my labors seemed to jump me into light speed for dilation and my babies were delivered within an hour of its taking effect. But let's not get into that aspect of becoming a mother.<br /><br />The real celebration is of the first time I held my baby boy. I watched as they took him to the table right beside me, checked him out, and cleaned him up. I remember I kept asking, “is he healthy? Is he okay?” Due to some scares we had gone through personally as well as with family, all my mind could focus on was his health. All reports came back healthy and strong. He was 21 ¼ inches long and weighed 8 lbs. and 10 ounces. We called him the sitcom baby because he looked already a month old at least.<br /><br />Then they laid him in my arms…I have loved people in my life—my parents, my wonderful husband, other family members and friends; I have also lost people and thought I had felt the deepness of my love when they were lost, but this was…<strong>utopian love</strong>! <br /><br />My husband spoke of utopian love when we dated. The kind of love that is endless and unconditional. But honestly, I thought that love was only the kind that God could give. I mean I have always done my best to offer my husband that kind of love, and I do love him unconditionally most of the time. But to love another human being so much that your heart physically hurts when they hurt, you can’t breathe when they fall, you become completely selfless when taking care of them, and you discover patience that you never knew you had, who does this? A mother does.<br /><br />Now four years later, I still love him as much as I did the moment he was placed in my arms, probably more. Because even through the stubborness, the tantrums, and the constant barrage of questions, all he has to do is look at me, and I know that motherhood is a truly glorious thing. In these four years, that love for him has also taught me to love others more deeply. <br /><br />My husband and I will celebrate ten years of marriage this summer, and I can truthfully say that I love him more everyday, and I cherish each kiss and embrace more now than ever (possibly because there is so little time for us that each moment seems like a miracle in itself). He is wonderful and undoubtedly completes me. His love, friendship, and partnership are exactly what my mother told me marriage should be. I just wish she were here to see all this. I’ve also learned to love another precious baby boy, and I honestly didn’t how my heart would expand enough for more love in my life, but it has and his giggle is infectious.<br /><br />So, today, I celebrate my motherhood and I toast all those mothers and fathers who have learned more about love through the life, eyes, and embrace of a child… may we keep these feelings and sentiments close to our hearts when we have to face the teen years!Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-64084013092656476622009-12-23T06:47:00.000-08:002009-12-23T06:57:55.474-08:00"Official" Disney World trip - The PrologueMy husband and I are no strangers to Disney – although as I have learned through my research we are by far not the most obsessed Disney enthusiasts. We definitely know our way around the World – many a family vacation as kids, taking backstage tours in our youth, traveling the kingdoms on our own, and sharing it as a couple. <br /><br />We purchased our Disney Vacation Club membership while in Orlando on a deal from another timeshare company. We had been married two years at the time and chose the DVC membership for two special reasons: as traveling enthusiasts and Disney fans we believed the investment was sound for our future enjoyment, and second, it was a special tribute to my mom who died of cancer in 2000. She loved Disney World and growing up she and I planned our treks to WDW together and enjoyed every minute. I felt there was no better gift to give her future grandchildren than wonderful memories at Disney World like she had given me. Thus began our next generation Disney traditions.<br /><br />We began using our DVC points traveling to different places – Colorado, Miami, Chicago, etc. After three years, I booked our first DVC vacation to Walt Disney World. Two weeks later I found out I was pregnant. Fortunately, I can’t imagine a better vacation spot when pregnant than Disney World. So at four months along, we were headed to Orlando. It was a wonderful trip staying for five nights at the Boardwalk Villas.<br /><br />We welcomed our baby boy. Then at the age of five months, we took him to meet the Mouse in California. From there we began talking about his “first” trip to Disney World. We started out with age five being the prime target, then thought four would be good, finally we settled on December before his fourth birthday. Having selected the “perfect” time of year in which this trip would be a new adventure for us all (neither of us had been there at Christmas time), we then began doing even more planning. Knowing we would like another child, we discussed the right time for that to avoid my once again traveling to WDW pregnant or trying to take a tiny temperamental infant.<br /><br />This was in the summer of 2008 when, at the same time, DH was chosen to attend a conference in Orlando. I of course wanted to go and it seemed only right to take our then two and a half year old son – BUT his “first” trip was not supposed to be for another 18 months. So we compromised. Our son and I hung out at Saratoga Springs resort in Disney World while DH attended his conference. Then we spent just a couple of days getting a taste for the parks, but absolutely no visit to the Magic Kingdom. We visited Hollywood Studios, Epcot, and Animal Kingdom. And a special little seed was planted when we ate dinner at Narcoossee’s and saw the castle -- to be visited on our “official” trip.<br /><br />Upon our return from Orlando, my hubby and I realized the window to have another child was then. We started trying and were pregnant within a month – not exactly what we had pictured but it worked. This meant the baby should be around seven months old at our time of travel. Once the baby was born, full blown plans for WDW ensued.Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-39141598450739513202009-12-21T14:19:00.000-08:002009-12-21T14:25:29.262-08:00Vacation Survived.. and FunSo we did it: six nights, four grandparents, and two kids at Walt Disney World! The itemized details will follow over time with ratings and reviews of the planning, the actual visit, and of course the food. <br /><br />For now, I will smile and simply say we survived and I believe most (although probably not all) of our party are ready to go back! In fact, as we boarded the plane my DS3 said, “Bye, Mickey. See you next year!” My hubby, however, had a slightly different take when asked when we were going back: “We will discuss it after we have taken a vacation for ourselves.” I certainly can’t argue that. We are due some hubby and wife time!<br /><br />All in all I think we monitored and adjusted well to the needs of those around us, like the grandparents who preferred a later start than we had planned or the child who was a zombie by day three and just wanted to go to the room and play or the grandparent who had a head ache and went back to the room for a nap. <br /><br />We apologize that we were obsessed with getting the most for our money and trying to see everything even if that meant trudging along exhausted. We have to admit to getting tired, too, and needing to slow down; we just don’t like it! At this point and in hindsight, I realize that my planning was a bit ambitious, but we had built this up for two years as Zac’s first trip. <br /><br />I would like to go on record as saying that once we got rolling I really did try to let Zac call the shots – though going back to the room to play with toys was kept to a minimum; seriously, he can do that at home. On the bright side, he did get to ride the Haunted Mansion ten times (I think we were on a first name basis with the cast members by the end of the night). And I was even crazy enough to take an infant and a 3 year old on HM by myself while daddy rode Splash Mountain!<br /><br />Looking at the schedule, I’d say we are eighteen months to two years from our next Disney trip, but who knows, only time will tell! Right now, it is time to plan a mommy/daddy trip. Our tenth anniversary is next summer! I better make this one a good one!Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-3857021245822884322009-11-25T12:21:00.000-08:002009-11-25T12:47:26.475-08:00Family photosApparently I have a little ham on my hands -- and in the spirit of the season he is a little turkey sometimes too -- at least that is how it appeared as we tried to take family photos today. My oldest son started out all smiles and giggles, along with some shouts and a few <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">tirades</span> about Star Wars characters. He followed direction for the most part. He jumped into one shot when his daddy and little brother were playing on the floor which turned out pretty cute. Then just a few shots left to get and he exclaims, "I'm Done!" Well, okay, Mr. Diva, somebody get him to his trailer for sparkling water and cartoons!<br /><br />Seriously though, not a bad outing. These were technically my baby's seven month photos which turned into a full set of family Thanksgiving photos. Yes, I know the second child gets the short end of the stick. But honestly, I have all the photos of our oldest at every age in three different poses and they just collect dust -- in fact they are not even where anyone can see them. So I went with the family shots, which did include individuals of the baby, because I thought that we could get the most use out of them. Now, I just hope they turn out well. Should get the proofs next week.<br /><br />Lessons learned:<br /><ul><li>Plan on just one <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">outfit</span> when getting photos of four people including two children -- changing an infant tends to make for a grumpy baby.</li><li>Parents, watch the camera and smile. Let the photographer make your kids smile; otherwise, your kids will be smiling while you have some weird expression on your face used to make them smile.</li><li>Plan a reward trip, such as lunch at Burger King, directly after the session for your older child if he/she is good.</li></ul>Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3164351011767395042.post-52075322223149278862009-11-18T14:14:00.000-08:002009-11-18T14:33:48.906-08:00The Chronicles of Adventure BeginSo this blog has been a while in the making...<br />My husband often says that I don't do anything for myself. Amongst my wonderful and loving duties as a mother, wife, and career woman, I don't have much time for hobbies. <br /><br />For many years I have had a hidden desire to be a travel writer, journalist, and/or reviewer (critic doesn't sound very nice). My husband and I travel frequently, usually taking a variety of weekend trips and two larger trips each year. However, that used to be much easier -- before we started our family. We now have two precious boys, but we still do our best to travel, with and without the boys.<br /><br />In fact, I have a backlog of articles that detail my planning, preparation and trepidation toward a wonderful upcoming vacation and hope to post them incrementally over the coming months. <br /><br />So by luck, chance, or an evil twist of fate, you have stumbled across my refuge and hopefully many elements of joy in this blog. Welcome to my Chronicles of Adventure...Brandyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07835485349028790000noreply@blogger.com1